We get a lot of questions about the challenges we face as a bi-cultural couple. In this video, we talk about the language barrier, how it affects communication, and the steps we’re taking to improve. Remember to rate and comment – thanks for watching!
This is a guest post by Stefan.
Maybe it’s because anniversaries are a time for reflection, or maybe it’s because in the summer I’m often out jogging or on my bike and just thinking too much, but lately I’ve been pondering my relationship and its future.
Posted in Relationships, Sex
Tagged Advice, Dating, gay jealousy, gay relationships, gay sex, how to spice up a relationship, Men who have sex with men, Monogamy, Open relationship, Polyamory, Relationships
I have a crush on a straight friend right now. The more we get closer, the more I want him. It’s painful, it’s hell. – reader Erick
Coming out to friends is hard. Falling in love with one of them knowing they’ll never love you in return is downright heartbreaking.
And it’s a problem many LGBT people face from puberty through adulthood.
So what can you do about it? How can you get past this love, this obsession for your straight friend?
Posted in Coming Out, Depression, Emotional Health, How To, Relationships
Tagged depression, gay friend, gay sex, homosexuality, how to get over a straight crush, i'm in love with my straight friend, in love with best friend, straight crush, straight friend, straight friends
One of my subscribers sent me a message today that said this:
My thing is that I’m really afraid of gay sex. I don’t know what it is, but I have all these ideas about how it is “supposed” to be. It’s so frustrating to not have any clear images about what it’s supposed to be like to be gay.
Now, if you’ve been out of the closet for a while, your first reaction might be, “WTF, sex is awesome!”
But for those of you recently out, the idea of having sex as a gay person can be downright terrifying and – dare I say – disgusting?
Posted in Coming Out, Life Tips, Relationships, Sex
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Remember that scene in When Harry Met Sally where Harry explains why men and women can’t be friends?
“The sex part always gets in the way,” he says.
Then I thought maybe this rule applied to gay men as well – a demographic known for being sex-crazed and superficial.
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Tagged coming out of the closet, Family and Relationships, friendship, Gay, Gay community, gay couples, gay friends, Gay Lesbian and Bisexual, Gay Men, gay relationships, kindagayblog, meaningful friendships, Men who have sex with men, older gay men, Queer, straight friends