One of my subscribers sent me a message today that said this:
My thing is that I’m really afraid of gay sex. I don’t know what it is, but I have all these ideas about how it is “supposed” to be. It’s so frustrating to not have any clear images about what it’s supposed to be like to be gay.
Now, if you’ve been out of the closet for a while, your first reaction might be, “WTF, sex is awesome!”
But for those of you recently out, the idea of having sex as a gay person can be downright terrifying and – dare I say – disgusting?