Should We Be More Tolerant of Homophobes?

Homophobia should be tolerated as long as it’s expressed in a calm, civilized manner.

Do Gay Men Find Themselves Sexually Attractive? (NSFW)

I guess my little blog here has gotten a boost in Google rankings ’cause I’m pickingĀ up more traffic through search engine queries. Some of these searches are pretty general – “gay blog” or “gay relationships” – but others are quite specific, and I thought they deserved to be addressed in a weekly post. So without

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Can Gay Men Really Be “Just Friends”?

Remember that scene in When Harry Met Sally where Harry explains why men and women can’t be friends? “The sex part always gets in the way,” he says. Then I thought maybe this rule applied to gay men as well – a demographic known for being sex-crazed and superficial.

What You Need to Know Before Coming Out of the Closet

Without a doubt, the most common question I get is, “How do I come out?” For closeted people, it’s more than a question – it’s a brain-eating amoeba that chews away at your hope and sanity. (And the only prescription is more cowbell – sorry, couldn’t help it.) In my opinion, there is no right

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