How to Survive Being Gay in a Small Town

I go to school in a town that has no stop lights. Everything is centered around farming and camo and all the shit that goes along with living in the country. Everyone here hates gays. I’m so ready to come out, but I’m also terrified. I just feel stuck in a room with no doors. Like

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Transitioning From an Open to Closed Relationship

This is a guest post by Stefan. Maybe it’s because anniversaries are a time for reflection, or maybe it’s because in the summer I’m often out jogging or on my bike and just thinking too much, but lately I’ve been pondering my relationship and its future.

Do Gay Men Find Themselves Sexually Attractive? (NSFW)

I guess my little blog here has gotten a boost in Google rankings ’cause I’m picking up more traffic through search engine queries. Some of these searches are pretty general – “gay blog” or “gay relationships” – but others are quite specific, and I thought they deserved to be addressed in a weekly post. So without

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Can Gay Men Really Be “Just Friends”?

Remember that scene in When Harry Met Sally where Harry explains why men and women can’t be friends? “The sex part always gets in the way,” he says. Then I thought maybe this rule applied to gay men as well – a demographic known for being sex-crazed and superficial.